Meaningful conversations

Awhile back I did a thought exercise. The exercise was a way of seeing what you valued most in life. It goes like this:

Every day for a week, write down the following snippet and answer it ten times:

Something I really want out of life is…

It seemed interesting, and I like it when things are spread out over a period of time so that you can see yourself in different ways. So I did this off and on for a few weeks. I expected that depending on the time of the day and my mood that this would fluctuate quite a bit, but I was surprised to see some recurring themes and a strong direction.

One of the things that struck me was "Something I really want out of life is to have meaningful conversations". I put this down a few times, but I never really defined "meaningful conversation." Perhaps I knew what I meant, but perhaps I didn't and was just being vague. So I thought about it for a bit.

Meaningful conversations are one of the most desirable events that I can think of. If I knew that I would have a great conversation but I had to miss something else to have it, there are few things that I would rather do with that time. Of course, this rarely happens in practice because there is a certain degree of spontaneity, it just so happens that two people are walking along similar paths in life, considering the same problems or running into the same obstacles. It is, of course, possible to be too analytical, and thereby spoil things. As with anything that is desirable, it is advisable to not become too attached to previous experiences and expectations.

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Growing Up

When I was growing up, my relatives always seemed to ask me the same questions. "How is school going?", "Do you have any girlfriends?" and, of course, the time-honored classic: "What do you want to be when you grow up?"

While the second question usually flustered me, it was the third question that seemed to evoke the most interest from my relatives. They would say ominous things like, "If you want to be happy in life and make a lot of money, you had better figure out what you want to do." I usually said something like be a doctor or lawyer, and they seemed mollified and the conversation changed to adult topics.

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Capistrano completion for zsh under Ubuntu

Seeking a way to extend completion in zsh for Capistrano tasks for a Rails project, I found a script that apparently works for OS X. However, it didn't seem to work out of the box for Ubuntu, so I made a few modifications. Put this in a file and source in your .zshrc file, and you should be set!

_cap_does_task_list_need_generating () {
  if [ ! -f .cap_tasks ]; then return 0;
  else
    accurate=$(stat -c "%y" .cap_tasks)
    changed=$(stat -c "%y" config/deploy.rb)
    return $(expr $accurate '>=' $changed)
  fi
}
 
_cap () {
  if [ -f config/deploy.rb ]; then
    if _cap_does_task_list_need_generating; then
      cap -T | cut -d " " -f 2 | sed -e '/^ *$/D' -e '1,2D' >! .cap_tasks
    fi
    compadd `cat .cap_tasks`
  fi
}
 
compdef _cap capompdef _cap cap

The first time that you attempt completion with cap, the available tasks will be analyzed and cached. Then, future completions will work correctly and quickly. If you have any problems, deleting the .cap_tasks file will signal that the generating process needs to happen again.

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The Pomodoro Technique

If you've walked by my area in the couple months or so, you may have noticed that I sometimes have a massive stopwatch displayed on my computer. I was consuming some content produced for the Agile 2008 conference, and came across a very interesting article about the Pomodoro Technique, a way to think about time and work differently. Staffan Nöteberg has a draft of his new book about the system, and can probably explain it more coherently than my attempt in this post.

What is it?

The Pomodoro Technique is a system that Francesco Cirillo created and used when he was a student to help him focus. Staffan then used this technique successfully in software development, and believes that it can be applied to most things that people do. Pomodoro comes from the Italian word for tomato, which was the form of his original timer.

For the system, you just need a pen, paper, and a kitchen timer. I'm using this online stopwatch and using simple text documents to replace the pen and paper. The online stopwatch is nice because it has an alarm that rings through my headphones so I don't bother anyone.

How do I use it?

So anyway, a pomodoro is a set period of 20 to 35 minutes in which you focus intently on the task at hand. After each pomodoro, you take a 3-5 minute break to stretch, relax, or just kind of space out. Nothing mentally challenging should be done. When you do four pomodoros back to back, it's called a set. After each set, you should take a longer break (15-30 minutes.) This is an ideal time for lunch, running errands, making non-work related phone calls, etc.

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Removing delays -- for prizes!

OK, here's the plan. Anyone who wants to answer the following question with a comment is eligible for the prize. The winner will be chosen at random from valid, thoughtful answers starting on Tuesday evening. The prize will be your choice of:

  • The Mythical Man-Month by Fred Brooks
  • More Joel on Software by Joel Spolsky
  • Peopleware by Tom DeMarco
  • Rapid Development: Taming Wild Software Schedules by Steve McConnell
  • Leaving one (and only one :) ) celebratory bragging comment saying that indeed, you are simultaneously a talented and lucky person

If you don't want to leave your full name, just make sure that I can get back to or identify you via the email you put down (which is not shown on the page.) I think this will be an interesting exercise to see where potential delays are and to start a dialog on where we can try to remove delays in our processes. The description talks about code, but your answers don't have to be limited to it.

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