I can assure you that people believe you have skills that you don’t actually have. They also don’t know about some great skills that you do have. These phenomena are a result of personal marketing efforts–whether intended or unconscious.
Owning concepts
The 22 Immutable Laws of Marketing by Al Ries and Jack Trout contain a few laws that I’d like to highlight:
- The Law of Exclusivity: Two companies cannot own the same word in the concept’s mind.
- The Law of Leadership: It’s better to be first than it is to be better.
- The Law of the Mind: It’s better to be first in the mind than to be first in the marketplace.
Now consider the following categories and who pops into your mind:
- a giving person
- a great programmer
- a do-it-yourself mechanic
- a politically liberal or conservative person
- a talented artist
- someone who sells things online
- someone who is in fantastic shape
My experiences
Generally I can think of only a person or two for any given category. I don’t know why this is the case. But not knowing the reason does not stop it from being a useful thing to know about.
